The Confidence Star!
The Confidence Star!
The Confidence Star!
The Confidence Star!
The Confidence Star!
The Confidence Star!
The Confidence Star!

The Confidence Star!

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Do You Worry That You Or Someone You Know Might Be Lacking Self-esteem Or Confidence?  

The Confidence Star Is Like Anti - Virus Software For The Mind.

Twice a day keeps negative thoughts away. Try it, you've got nothing to lose but so much to gain.

The Confidence Star is a great way to build confidence.

Your ability to stay positive and maintain positive thoughts determines your happiness in life.

I’m Ife Thomas, and The Confidence Star is my gift to the world.

I’m often called The Confidence Queen, and spreading self-confidence and positivity is what I’m passionate about. But here’s something that may surprise you: the reason why I understand the importance of confidence is because I haven’t always had it myself.

I didn’t like myself very much when I was growing up and, what’s more, as a person with autism, I often felt lost and found it difficult to figure out the world around me. I only began to gain confidence when I learned how to dance and went on to have a successful career in entertainment, before becoming a mindset and confidence coach.

Life was good, but everything changed when my first son, Quincy, was diagnosed with autism too. When I read through all the literature about autism, I noticed that autistic people often lack in self-confidence and self-esteem, and this can have a huge impact on their mental health. So, I started thinking about what I could do to help counterbalance that and I remembered how, in the world of personal development, everything boils down to one thing: the power that comes from the words we say to ourselves.

I felt that if I could teach my son how to like himself and believe in himself, then that would be the greatest legacy I possibly leave. So, I developed these powerful affirmations and asked Quincy to say them to himself in the mirror every day. He wouldn’t do that, so that’s when I hit upon the idea of putting those words actually onto a mirror and asking him to read them out. That’s how The Confidence Star was born.

By reading the words, Quincy wasn’t consciously aware that he was looking at himself, but he still felt the power of the words. His confidence soon grew and he changed from a boy who didn’t want to speak to anybody, to a boy who was relaxing into himself, smiling and laughing. It was astonishing.

Other parents saw the change in him too and they started to ask me about the words that Quincy was saying to himself, because they wanted to use them to help their children as well. When I told them about The Confidence Star, it soon became obvious that this was a product people wanted. After all, doesn’t every mother and father want their child to like and believe in themselves?

Now, The Confidence Star is in homes, schools, hospitals, nurseries and so many other places all around the world. Children use it, adults use it, and the feedback that I get about it honestly takes my breath away. People say that it has changed their lives for the better.

Now I hope that you and your family will be able to experience the power of The Confidence Star.

 

  

How did you first hear about the Confidence Star?

I am the manager at a breakfast and after school clubcatering to children aged 3 to 9 years old. Ife’s sons joined the club and I was lucky enough to learn about the star from Ife and her boys. When I heard about it, it seemed like such a lovely thing to do. Ife kindly donated a star to the club, and we began saying it every day with the children.

How did the children take to saying the affirmations each day?

I noticed there was one boy who struggled with the line “I like myself” which seemed astonishing to me. It made me realise that children don’t just naturally have high self-esteem. So, we set about saying the words on the star and by the end of the week, the boy was saying them all and beaming.

What impact has it had on the children?

I’ve noticed a marked difference in the children over the months we’ve been using the star. They are more engaged in conversation and are much more able to express themselves. They are also more inquisitive and much calmer! It was brilliant because we were all able to talk about the star and it has helped us to foster an environment where the children care for themselves and each other.

Why do you think it works so well?

I think it’s because you say the words while looking at yourself in the mirrored surface of the star. We all have busy lives, taking a minute to say the words is your time and an opportunity to value yourself.

Do you use the star?

Yes, every day, it’s on the wall in the bathroom at home. The first time I said the words I felt like a weirdo! But I’m now a lot more confident. I’m a manager and I’ve learnt to take feedback. I used to cry at anything and take everything to heart. I often felt worthless and suffered with deep depression. Ife and the Confidence Star havechanged my life. My wife used the star too and it’s given her the self-belief to go for a job interview and push herself in her career.

What would you say to people who don’t have the Confidence Star?

Buy the star! The star is not just a star, it has a deeper meaning. The words mean so much, they touch me in such a way that makes me feel confident and happy. It sounds silly but saying those words has such an impact that people don’t realise until they try it. I’d say give it a go and give yourself a chance and see how it changes you.

 

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"The Confidence Star is the fastest, easiest and most effective way to change negative thoughts into positive. "

— Ife Thomas ( Personal Development Coach )

Building a positive self-image in the selfie generation

Imagine a tool that boosts confidence, raises self-esteem and fits seamlessly into your daily routine.

That’s the Confidence Star! The Star is a neatly-sized mirror you can mount on any wall. Its surface is beautifully etched with powerful, self-affirming statements that you say aloud while looking at your own reflection.

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The "I am challenge…"

  • ‘I am somebody!’
  • ‘I am good enough!’
  • ‘I can do anything!’
  • ‘I like myself!’

Connecting these messages with your own, unfiltered image is a scientifically-proven route to positively shifting your self-perception.

The Star was created by motivational coach Ife Thomas who was looking for a simple but effective way to build a sense of self-worth in her eldest son after he was diagnosed with autism.

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Thanks for boosting my little girl’s confidence!!

"So Ruby had an audition today with some talent scouters in LA who got people for Twilight and started Ariana Grande off. Two thousand people auditioned so it’s pretty unlikely that she will get through but it boosted her confidence so much. And before her casting she quoted your star!!! She smashed it! She remembered all her lines." 

— Abby, Mum of 3

Now I focus on my strengths and not my weaknesses.

"The words have protected me from negative feelings. They’ve also pushed me forward and given me the confidence to push myself. In school, I won the gold tie, I interviewed Prince Edward, I have great friends and I am a student counselor. I’m doing really well in math and I focus on my strengths and not my weaknesses." 

— Cameron, Year 11 student

It has a positive impact on the lives of the children and the staff.

"There’s such a need for mental health and wellbeing for children in all educational settings, it’s such an issue at the moment. And I think what better place to start than a Confidence Star? It’s a thing you could have as a whole-school approach, done in assemblies so that everyone gets involved. I think it would have a positive impact on the lives of the children and the staff. Positive affirmations make such a difference to how we feel, whether you’re an adult or a child." 

— Anne Goldsmith, Children’s Behaviour Counsellor

Thank you very much for the stars!!

"We’ve had our stars for three months now. My daughters love them. Now, whenever I say we have to give up, or that something is not possible, my little one says: “Mummy, do we need to get you a star? Don’t you remember what it says? I can do anything!” And she’s absolutely right, so thank you very much for the stars."

—  Maruxa, Mum of 2

Now I focus on my strengths and not my weaknesses.

"The words have protected me from negative feelings. They’ve also pushed me forward and given me the confidence to push myself. In school, I won the gold tie, I interviewed Prince Edward, I have great friends and I am a student counselor. I’m doing really well in math and I focus on my strengths and not my weaknesses." 

— Cameron, Year 11 student

Brian Tracy 

Motivational Speaker

If you raise your children with high levels of self-esteem where they really like and respect themselves, where they have confidence and are willing to try different things and make mistakes and fall on their face and keep on going, then you’ve succeeded.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Every year, a quarter of all adults experience mental health issues. Building your self-esteem is a simple but effective way to improve mental resilience.

Repeating affirmations to yourself in front of the Confidence Star at the start and end of the day is a fast and easy way to integrate confidence-boosting habits into your daily routine.

And with self-confidence comes the ability to manage your emotions better and deal with challenging people and situations more effectively. You are giving yourself the gift of self-control, which is a fundamental condition for happiness and wellbeing.

OUR MISSION 
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To empower the world by creating wellness tools for the mind that advance humankind. We believe that when you learn to be your own cheerleader you will be more resilient and in control of your own mental health.

Product specifications

(Applicable for all star versions)

High-Quality Aluminium Composite -3mm Thick - Non-breakable - Adhesive strips and a hole for attachment use a flat surfaces Ideal.  

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